

I decided I better hurry and write down Sophia's birth story before I forget the details. It has been one week since I went into labor and it already feels like a lifetime ago. I have been trying really hard to write a little something every day about what is going on with Sophia. I know how fast these first few months go and it will nice to be able to have this record to look back on. I wish I would have done the same when Savannah was born.
Anyway...on Tuesday October 20 at around 1:00 pm, I started to notice that my water was leaking. I had been expecting a big gush because that is how it was with Savannah, so I was hesitant to drop everything and go to the hospital. I was kind of waiting for the big gush. Finally, I realized it probably wasn't going to happen and that I probably needed to get to the hospital. I called Steve and made arrangements to drop Savannah off at our friends' house. I still wasn't 100% certain that this was it because my contractions were so mild and so far apart.
It took us two hours to get to the hospital (and we live 10 minutes away!). I guess I should have been better prepared. I was running around the house trying to get everything ready for Savannah and me and the baby. Plus Steve had to get his stuff ready when he got home from work.
When I got to the hospital they told me I could choose two people who would be able to visit me the whole time I was in the hospital. I had to write down two names right there and then and no one else could come in the whole time I was there. So...Steve and Shera were the only people who got to come to the hospital to see Sophie. Well obviously Steve was there the whole time!
The labor and delivery nurse confirmed that my water had broken and that I wasn't going anywhere so we started to make more long term plans for where Savannah was going to stay while we were in the hospital. The hardest part of having this baby was being away from Savannah. I couldn't stop thinking about her and I wished so much that they would have let her come to the hospital to be with us for a little while.
Anyway, we got to the hospital at around 3:30 and I was dilated to a 4. But...contractions were still really mild and not very regular. The same thing happened when I had Savannah and they had to give me Pitocin to help get things going, and this is what they did this time too. After about 10 minutes with the Pitocin I requested my epidural. Haha! I have such low pain tolerance. Unfortunately, my epidural wasn't all that great this time. I still felt all of my contractions, but my lower half was completely numb. Like it felt like my legs weren't even attached to my body. Everyone kept having to move my legs for me. It was so frustrating and uncomfortable!
After I got the Pitocin, I progressed really fast. At about 7:30 the doctor came in and started to get everything ready. I warned the nurse that I pushed Savannah out really fast and that she might want to have the doctor there before she had me do a practice push. The doctor barely made it in time for Savannah because she almost came out with the practice push. My doctor didn't actually deliver Sophie because it was his day off, so Dr. Horsley delivered her. He was so awesome though. We were having a great time in the delivery room! Haha. Delivery was pretty uneventful. I pushed through three contractions and there was little Sophia. It was funny though, since I couldn't feel my lower half, I couldn't tell if I was pushing. I kept asking everyone if I was pushing and they kept assuring me that I was! On the second push, the doctor realized that Sophia was coming out with her face up. He said he was going to turn her on the next push because it can take hours to deliver a baby face up. When I went to push next time, she came out though, so there was no need. I think everyone was amazed at how fast I pushed her out. The nurse kept saying how it usually takes forever for people to push babies out like that. I guess I'm blessed to have babies who are anxious to get here and who have really small heads (which just makes me laugh. Who would have ever thought that I would have small-headed children!!!). She had a giant cone on her forehead when she first came out because the birth was a little traumatizing! She still have a little birth mark between her eyebrows, but it is fading fast.
I just want to mention that the whole time I was in labor I was having fears that Sophia was going to be a boy! I don't know how I got this idea in my head but it stuck through my whole pregnancy. It didn't help that Andrea texted Steve right before I started pushing and said, "Don't tell Katie, but I still think its a boy!" Thanks a lot Andrea! Haha!!! When the doctor and nurses would ask me what we were having, I would tell them that they told me it was a girl, but that I was nervous that it was a boy. The first thing I asked when she was born is, "Is it a girl?" Everyone confirmed that it was a girl and I was very relieved. Haha!
Before I started pushing, I told everyone that I didn't want them to put Sophie on my chest, I just wanted them to take her right back to the nurse to make sure her lungs were fully developed and working well. I was so nervous because when I had Savannah her lungs weren't ready, and I knew I wouldn't be able to relax and enjoy Sophie until I knew for sure that she was healthy. So as soon as she was born, they showed her to me, Steve cut the cord and then they took her back to the nurse. After a few minutes the nurse assured us that everything was perfect and then we got the chance to snuggle our sweet girl. It was wonderful. I got to hold her while they took me to recovery and I got to spend so much time with her while we were in the hospital. It was so relaxing! When I had Savannah I didn't even get to hold her for a few days, so this just felt amazing. Having a baby is such a spiritual experience. They come into this world so perfect and it is incredible how much you love them and how much they rely on you.
That night, her one and only visitor came to see her. Shera got there late that night and was able to spend some time with us. She also came back Wednesday morning. They were on their way to Washington and spent the night at our house with Savannah. Savannah spent all day Wednesday at Andrea and David's house. I was so thankful to everyone who helped take care of Savannah while we were in the hospital. It was nice to know that she was having fun playing with her friends and cousins.
I had Sophia at 8:05 PM. I asked the nurse the next morning if I could go home! Haha! I was ready to sleep in my own bed and spend time with Savannah. The nurse said I could go home after lunch but the pediatrician said that Sophie needed to stay for at least 24 hours from the time she was born so we didn't actually get discharged until 9:00 pm on the 21st.
We are just so happy to have Sophie here healthy and beautiful, 7 pounds 11 ounces, even at 13 days early. She is such a blessing to our family and it feels like she has always been a part of it. We love our little Sophia!